Tulisa Contostavlos Discusses The Sex Tape

[youtube qVaW3rfCwq8 640 360] Yesterday, Tulisa Contostavlos posted a YouTube video in which she admits that she is the woman in the sex tape that's been circulating lately. She identifies the man who took the video, she discusses their relationship, and she is completely honest throughout the entire five-minute video.

We urge you to watch this video, not just because Tulisa fills in all of the details, but because her openness is touching. The man who performed in, filmed, and distributed the sex tape is Justin Edwards (a.k.a. Ultra), a man who was Tulisa's on-again-off-again boyfriend for years. She says she's not surprised that this footage is all over the internet, because she heard from mutual friends last year that Edwards was looking to make money off of it, use it to harm her career, and otherwise threatening to release it.

The Huffington Post mentions that soon after Tulisa posted this video to her Twitter account, "Justin Edwards," "ULTRA," and "#StopUltra2012" all started trending. However, Tulisa isn't exactly trying to demonize Edwards; she's just asking that both of them be judged rather than only her. She adds, "When you judge someone, it doesn't define the person you're judging. It defines you."

· Tulisa Talks (youtube.com)