Sex with Emily Interviews Porn Star Skin Diamond

Dr. Emily Morse and Skin Diamond

On the Sex with Emily show, Skin Diamond dishes on having sex with girls, the perks of being a porn star, going down on a woman, crazy orgasms, dirty talk, and of course, anal sex.

Emily: Were you into women growing up? Or did you have sex with women in porn and then you were into girls?

Skin Diamond: I've always been into girls. I think before I even realized I was into girls I remember seeing a naked woman when I was quite young and getting turned on. I had the biggest crush on Jessica Rabbit growing up. But I loved guys too.

Emily: You've done a little bit of everything? What do you think are the best and worst aspects of doing porn?

Skin: I think the best aspects is the freedom that I have. I can do whatever I want now. You make money really fast and more than I could make in a 9-5 job. And of course, the orgasms. I come really easily. It's like my pussy was made for porn.

The worst part about porn isn't the porn itself but the stigma that can come with it. You get branded as this type of person when you do porn and everyone assumes porn stars are crazy drug addicts and sex addicts. Because I do porn I actually have sex less in my personal life because I'm pickier. I'm not going to have sex with just anyone because I get paid to have sex.

Emily: What are your best sex tips for hooking up with women? Do you have oral sex tips?

Skin: Oral sex tips-- Taking it slow, lots of teasing, kissing around the pussy, biting the inside with little nibbles. Take things really slowly, it's not a race, you can take your time to explore. If you're doing something and she makes a noise, keep doing it. Take your time and enjoy it.

Even guy likes it a little different too. You have to take it slow and read the person. Figure out what they like and once you know, the next time you can just go for it. That's why I love sex because it's different with every person. It's always fresh and new.

Emily: Exactly, and it should constantly be that way. One of the main points I make on the show is your sex life should be expansive, especially in a long-term relationship. You should be continuously finding what each other wants.

Skin: One of easiest ways to figure out what your partner wants is through dirty talk. I know the guy I'm dating wants to have a threesome because I talk about having sex with a woman and he loves it. So now we need to have a threesome. I have to find one of my porn friends.

Emily: Do you like having threesomes?

Skin: I do, but they are always a bit trickier because there's always the danger of getting left out. That's why I prefer orgies because there's always someone to play with.

Emily: You have to have a lot of communication. It's true that it can get tricky. Some couples think it will solve their relationship but that's wrong.

So, Have you always orgasmed easily? When did you start masturbating?

Skin: Remember those braiding hair twisty devices? When you turned it on it vibrated a little bit. I started using that when I was eleven.

Emily: How did you know to use it?

Skin: When I was very young I saw something I maybe shouldn't have seen at a very young age haha. I remember the first time I orgasmed with my hands and I had an orgasm and I was like, was that it? Because you're not sure the first time.

Emily: Do you have clitoral, G-spot, or all kinds of orgasms?

Skin: A bit of everything. I have really strong Kegel muscles. I've been doing Kegel Exercises before I knew what those were. I realized that if I needed to pee, I could do my Kegels and could actually orgasm without using my hands.

Emily: Kegel exercises are so important, if you don't know what they are. I actually have an iPhone app called Kegel Camp and every day it pops up with a little reminder to do your Kegels. I lead you through your Kegel exercises and there's 20 levels. Kegels make women tighter and more orgasmic, and give men stronger orgasms and the power to last longer.

So, do you do Kegels during sex?

Skin: If I need to come during sex on a porn shoot, I do Kegel exercises and so I can work my Kegels so I can force myself to come.

You know what else is a good trick? I hold my breath when I'm coming. It's almost a form of breath play. When you're light-headed during orgasms it makes the orgasms seem even cooler.

Emily: Can you have multiple orgasms?

Skin: I always do. Every time.

Emily: I kind of want you to leave right now.... Do you ever use toys?

Skin: I use the Magic Wand exclusively. It's like $40 and every woman should invest in one.

Emily: Has your experience of sex changed after becoming a porn star?

Skin: It has changed. One, I feel more experienced. I have experienced so many things that I would have never experienced if I didn't do porn, like crazy BDSM things that maybe I wouldn't feel safe doing without professionals.

I know good sex is better. I know passion is everything. When you're young you want it hard and fast all the time. Now, it's different. I don't mind it when it's slow.

Emily: What happens in Skin Diamond's sexual fantasy?

Skin: I like pretending like I'm a kitty. I have a kitty butt plug tail with a bow and ears and a collar. The scene that won AVN was my blow bang scene. It's like a gang bang but it's all oral sex. There were 9-12 guys and me. It was my idea to pretend to be a cat the the whole time while they banged in my face. They all came in a little kitty bowl and I lapped it up.

Emily: A lot of guys want to have anal sex, but a lot of women have really bad experiences with men who don't know what their doing so they end up hurting women (not enough lube, or warm up time) so they don't want to it ever again. What are the do's and don'ts of anal sex?

Skin: If you want it to be super magical, I suggest that the girl cleans herself out and uses lots and lots of lube. Go slowly, especially if he's girthy. If she's on top, she can control the movement. Like with Lexington Steele because he's like the length of my arm. I stretch my anus before a scene. I usually use a vibrator at the same time because if I have an orgasm it's easier to relax.

Emily: Exactly, It's like stretching before a run.

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