The Erotic Art of Insemination: Breeding Fetish

A breeding kink or impregnation fetish is a strong attraction to the idea of getting or getting someone else pregnant. According to WebMD, people with a breeding fetish generally enjoy the “risky” feeling of potentially permanent consequences from a sexual act. They might also enjoy a sense of power exchange, where one partner is “submitting” to the other.

For some people, this fetish is about role-play and fantasy, so the use of contraception wouldn’t be frowned upon. But for many, it involves the exchange of body fluids, which would result in impregnation but may also result in an unwanted risk of getting an STI (sexually transmitted infection).

Fact: Breeding kink or impregnation fetish is about the idea of getting or getting someone else pregnant.

Fact: Breeding kink or impregnation fetish ends where pregnancy fetish begins.

Fact: A pregnancy fetish is an attraction to people who are already pregnant.

Like in many other kinks and fetishes, there’s an undertone of domination and objectification in breeding. One person is ejaculating, and one is getting ejaculated into. I love this. Not for myself because the idea of pregnancy gives me a rash, but I don’t mind the emotional distancing and objectification behind hole and cum recipient. I should clarify that I understand that many people who enjoy the breeding kink/fetish also want to avoid pregnancy. The erotic angle is about the risk of getting pregnant. It’s just that for me, that specific risk is just too stressful to be exciting.

Bree Mills, Chief Creative Officer at Adult Times, explains that breeding porn isn’t just for straight couples.

“You definitely see a lot of breeding scenarios within gay male content. In fact, I recently wrapped a production for my studio, Disruptive Films, all about a dystopian future breeding farm for men!”

Gay men call this cum dumping. Some of the names used for the receiver of cum are hole, cum bucket, cum dumpster, and breeding bitch.

The fact that there’s such a thing as ejaculating dildos is, in my opinion, a clue to how popular and accepted breeding fetish is. Maybe it’s the “naturality” in a man wanting to “share his seed” and a woman craving reproduction. It feels almost Darwinian and genetically driven for some, of course. Maybe breeding is what humans are meant to do. The woman is a vessel for childbearing, and the man seeks to continue what is undoubtedly an exceptional and unique genetic material.

According to Pornhub, most people who watch creampie videos are between 24-35 years old. I read that statistic months ago and have been thinking about it ever since. Is breeding fetish a natural reproduction, survival of the fittest kind of thing? Are we just programmed by nature to crave breeding? I know I’m not, but it seems like A LOT of people are.

“(Breeding fetish) is directly related to the growing popularity of hotwife and swinger content. The term “breeding” has been used in the swingers community for years. You could find many posts on the swinger groups where a guy would look for ‘a bull who will breed his wife’.”

-Valentina Belluci, a porn creator and studio head of StepHouseXXX

Fact: In breeding kink/fetish, male partners are claiming dominance and claiming ownership over their female partners. Male-centered dominance (specifically in heteronormative interactions) is an agent of the patriarchy.

Fact: Some aspects of the breeding kink/fetish could be considered biblical. “Christianity endows men with ownership and dominance over women, while it divorces women from their bodily autonomy, insists on submission, reinforces pregnancy as a form of punishment and misery, all while driving faithfulness to a single man.”

“For me, breeding is almost primal. It’s a man choosing me to carry his children. I’d classify myself as a monogamous breeding submissive. I’m not going to let any Dom I have impregnate me and then find out in a year we don’t work out. But I’d like to have as many babies as we can afford when we do get to that point of no longer pretending, but living, our kinks.” -Baby Bunny (25-year-old sub)

Fact: A breeding kink/fetish could have racist undertones since female slaves in the United States (and around the world) were subjected to force breeding so that their owners could ensure the continuity of production.

“To say nothing of the history of people of color being treated as livestock throughout America’s history. That last one… It definitely feels like this is one of those fetishes a lot of white people will dabble in without considering why it’s more of a hypothetical fantasy-only thing for us. Same way that white women keep shouting, ‘The Handmaid’s Tale is going to be real!’ Like bitch, it’s been real! Just not for us!”

-Maggie McMuffin (32-year-old bisexual femme)

Fact: Kinks reflect our society and our place in society.

Fact: Forced breeding is consensual non-consent or rape play. It’s a subcategory of breeding kink/fetish.

“We set up a scene where I was a princess, and they were the dragon who held me captive. It combined so many of my kinks: monster fucking, fairy-tale roleplay, consensual non-consent, creampies. In the middle of the event, with them in a dragon mask and me fully blissed out, they broke character to ask ‘Hey, how would you feel about this being an impregnation scene?’ They dirty talked about me, like, giving birth to these monster babies and throwing away my chances at a prince in order to keep fucking this dragon, and I was like, Well! I guess I’m into this now!”

-Maggie McMuffin (32-year-old bisexual femme)

Naturally, kinksters are responding to the increasingly regressive actions restricting reproductive rights with an increased interest in breeding. With Roe v. Wade being overturned recently, the topic of reproduction is in many people’s minds. In a kinky and predictable way, this only adds eroticism and intensity to the breeding kink/fetish since, as I said before, the thrill isn’t the pregnancy; it’s the risk of getting pregnant. And now that comes at a much higher price…